Multiple Personalities Online
I’m constantly torn between having one personality online or having several. ‘Back in the day’, which is until 2005 when the wheels on my life can flying out from under me, I had about 30 profiles on line. I kept a spreadsheet of the personalities. I assigned them children, types of cars they drove, their computer types and configurations (I was selling computer memory and flash cards at the time). I would often times start a thread in a newsgroup or forum with one personality and then reply with another personality. Then even toss in a third one to get the thread going. Most of the time the ‘real’ public would then kick in and a long thread about the product I was trying to promote would ensue.
I began getting conflicted about this during my divorce and lots of discussions with marriage counselors about honesty etc. So I flushed them all. Their user names, their personalities, etc. All TOAST! Now I am wondering if there isn’t a happy medium though. Afterall, do I really want to have my personal life and my business life all wrapped into one online identity? I have some pretty ‘out-there’ ideas on things and can really get rolling on some less than politically correct topics by just a nudge or two from the community.
What do you think? What’s your stance on online personalities? Where does ‘honesty’ play a role?
Posted: September 14th, 2008 under Uncategorized.
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Comment from paisley
Time: September 14, 2008, 9:51 pm
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i’m always honest.. too honest in fact to have my bluntness attributable to my real name in the un-deletable database that is the internet.
when i started online with this name, there were reasons pertaining to me working undercover in law enforcement that precluded me from using my real name.
this was back in 1995.. all my online experimentations and discussions have been held under this name since then.
When i have appeared on TV and radio (hmm.. do you actually “appear” on radio? ) - it’s always been under my real name, not paisley… my music career as a professional DJ is under this name.. nobody knows me as my real name, except professionals, chambers of commerces, AAF, etc… so i guess i could blog as my real name.. but all my crap is under this name.
However, to return to my first point… i am more honest as “paisley”, i don’t really care.. maybe it’s become it doesn’t have my real name associated with it.
I would like you, be a little more professional, more controlled, toned down quuite a bit actually, if i was doing all this under my real name. so.. i actually kinda of envy you.. i’m kinda stuck as “paisley”.. but i know i would be better off professionally if i was using my real name…
but.. i sure wouldn’t be as upfront and honest.
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